“Be ready to make your defense to anyone who demands an accounting for the hope that is in you – yet do it with gentleness and reverence.”
Times were hard. As our reading from Acts continues with the stories of the apostles shortly after the crucifixion & resurrection, we hear about Paul being ‘on the run ‘ …
Paul, Silas & Timothy had been traveling and preaching about Jesus – they had enraged the local hard-line Jews – and had to escape from Thessalonica. They went to Berea, and got into trouble there too, so Paul took a boat and went to Athens. While he was waiting there for Silas & Timothy to catch up with him, he got more and more angry with all the idols he saw around. He talked with people, and was eventually invited to present his ideas in public!
The part that precedes our reading this a.m. describes how Paul talked with people he met – various people – and shared his ideas and listened to them, and some agreed and some didn’t, but eventually he was invited to speak. He met some people of the community – explored his ideas cautiously til he found some supporters to put him forward. What a wise way to interact with strangers … with everyone! J
Paul talked of the hope that was in his – his belief that this Jesus was indeed the Messiah … but he was finally learning to do it with gentleness and reverence! (We know Paul didn’t always work that way, but it seems to have been effective in this case because he didn’t have to immediately run for his life or get tossed into prison!)
“Make your defense … with gentleness and reverence…”
I was away in Gatineau for a few days this week attending the annual conference of the Reseau des soins palliatifs du Quebec. We heard a lot about approaching people with the hope that is in us – in a gentle and respectful manner. When we work with people at the end of their lives, or at least who know that the disease they have will lead to their death, we must meet them where they are. We must get to know The Person – not simply what we see on the surface, the role they are playing, a sick person – or, as in Paul’s case, false gods. We must LISTEN, propose our hope gently and with reverence – respect who people are and what has formed them before we came along!
As I spent a few hours on airplanes, I was reading a book called “Three Cups of Tea”, a true story about a mountain climber – of the Big Stuff: not Mt. Everest, but others in the northern Pakistan Himalayas [K2, Gasherbrum, Mitre Peak…] . On one of his descents, he became separated from his guide, wandered off and eventually turned up in an extremely isolated little village in northern Pakistan. To make a long story short, he discovered that there was no real school for the children – they shared a teacher with another village, the children knelt outdoors on the rocks and scratched their lessons into the clay with sticks. His heart was opened to these people who took him into their midst and cared for him while he recovered, and he promised that he would come back and build them a proper school!
The story about the difficulties he faced is fascinating! Not just raising the money in America, but returning to Korphe and trying to do business as he was used to in the US: ordering materials, hiring transportation and workers. ….. Things just don’t work that way in the isolated areas of Pakistan and Afghanistan. He had to do like Paul – he finally discovered: with a lot of help and mentoring from a few local people who shared his dream. He had to listen to people, and learn about them and their ways and then he could gently put forward his ideas. It takes a lot of time! But it works! (The 3 cups of tea = you drink the first cup as a stranger; with the 2nd cup your become a friend; with the 3rd cup you become family, and people will do anything for a member of their family.) Gentleness and respect …
It reminds me of when I first moved to Calgary – I was lonely, everything was strange, and I wanted to buy a piano (playing has always been a great comfort to me)… so I went to a well-reputed music store, and the salesperson started asking me a lot of questions – questions I found ‘personal’. I didn’t want to spend all afternoon! I guess I was being pretty short with him, and eventually he said, “You must be from Ontario: we don’t do business that way in Alberta. Relax! Take your time!” … He was trying to get to know me, to treat me gently, with respect, so that when he eventually led me to the piano he thought would be best for me, I would be ready to trust him and accept his suggestion. It works – in most situations ….
But what about Zimbabwe? Today we have been asked to especially remember the people of that country in our prayers… If you follow the news a bit you have heard about the election, and the lack of publicized results and the violence and terror that are happening there…There doesn’t seem to be any respect or gentleness being shown. How are people to react? How can they cope?
We see what happens when someone takes control and doesn’t treat people with gentleness and respect. Prosperous farms were taken from families who had worked them for generations, and given to Mugabe’s friends, who knew nothing about farming. They didn’t take time to listen and learn, and now there is no food! The land has been ruined and the country is in chaos. Some of the people have strong faith – they hold onto Jesus’ promise of a comforter – a paraclete – an advocate for them…and little bits of help get through, and people try to nourish the faith in each other.
For me, that’s the message of our readings this morning. Approach each other with gentleness and respect – not just our friends and the neighbours we like: that’s easy! But the people we don’t immediately like – the people whose ways are not our ways. Honour each other. Get to know the other person as a person – as a human being, created in God’s image! We’re not called to force our ideas on others, but simply to give account of our hope in a gentle, respectful manner.
And though we see and know that it is not always easy to do, Jesus promises us, as he promised the disciples, that we are not left alone. We are not abandoned to work this out for ourselves! We will receive the Holy Spirit – the Spirit of Truth - to be with us forever.
This is our Easter faith – the transformation of life by love and grace (gentleness & respect)– God’s work of resurrection!